The Family On Trial
May 15, 2019
Is an expression that is used in the legal area and means: “to be as a defendant...being tried by a judge or jury”. This expression is usually used when it refers to something that is being criticized. “The family on trial” means that the family institution is being tried. The family is the first human organization ordained by God. It’s the bedrock upon which society rests. Someone has said, “…as the family goes, so goes the nation.” We have heard an expression that seems to be more and more normal: “The family is a bankrupt institution”. There are many voices saying that the family has ended, that it’s no longer relevant, that it’s outdated, it’s a thing of the past. It’s out of fashion. It’s no longer needed. The family is not over! It’s only weakened, and needs be stronger.
What happened? Where have we failed? Why so many problems? The answer is that we have turned away from God and His commandments. Many men have never learned how to be devoted husbands and fathers. Many women are fleeing from God-given roles. Many parents have no idea how to educate and prepare their children for the future. Others simply give up their duty, leaving their children without any preparation or provision. Building solid families does not happen by sheer luck. Psalm 127: 1 “Unless the Lord builds the house, the builders labor in vain.” Only by returning to the divine standard can we begin to understand the great blessings God has prepared for us. We need to rescue the meaning that God, our Creator and sustainer, had when he created the FAMILY.
UNDERSTANDING THE PURPOSE OF THE FAMILY
What do people want to find when they marry and want to form a family? Most couples will answer: HAPPINESS! Many seek marriage as a source of happiness. Yet, this target is the biggest cause of conflict, tensions and even breakdown in many relationships. Why? Because when we enter in a relationship believing, desiring and expecting that the other one will make me happy, we are setting an inverse pattern. We should have and desire happiness, but this is not the target nor the goal for a marriage and a family. Happiness should be the consequence generated by the right goal. And what is the right goal? According to the Word of God, the right goal is our MATURITY.
Genesis 1:27 (NIRV) “So, God created human beings in his own likeness. He created them to be like himself. He created them as male and female”. Two essential elements of family — marriage and parenthood — reveal God's character like nothing else in Creation. The love between a husband and wife provides a glimpse of Christ's devotion to us. In the same way, the ups and downs of parenthood offer a picture of God's tenderness and patience toward us as His children. To have healthy relationships, especially our marital and family relationships, we need to mature and to emphasis on the other and less on ourselves. Like said in Romans 12:10 “Love each other with genuine affection and take delight in honoring each other.”
Pastor Norberto Obermann
The Eyes of Jesus are Upon You
April 16, 2019
In many traditions, the eyes represent “The Window of the Soul”; because they reflect our emotions, fears and our deepest emotive shades. Our eyes transmit much more than we perceive and feel. They can transmit mercy, fear, distrust, loves, sadness, etc. We can even express who we are and what we feel through our eyes. Depending on the type of relationship we have with someone, it’s possible to communicate with the eyes.
At the trial of Jesus, when he was being judged, something happens with Peter, one of his disciples. Luke 22:60-62 Peter said, “Man, I don’t know what you’re talking about.” At that very moment, the last word hardly off his lips, a rooster crowed. Just then, the Master turned and looked at Peter. Peter remembered what the Master had said to him: “Before the rooster crows, you will deny me three times.” He went out and cried and cried and cried.
Jesus looks at Peter, and in that look, we find something significant. It’s not condemnation nor recrimination. It’s not complaint neither sadness. Through Jesus’ eyes Peter, and we too, can get help and salvation.
The eyes of Jesus are upon our failure and weaknesses to make us strong.
Our culture tells us to highlight our strengths and minimize or hide our weaknesses. Failures and weaknesses: Who doesn’t have one? James 3: 2 "We all fail a lot"… “We all stumble in many ways”. We all mess up, make mistakes, sin. Nobody is perfect. The “good news” is that God has provided a way for us. Jesus Christ came to be our bridge to God. We must understand that we all fail, and if we have failed still it’s not the end. We are tempted to exaggerate failure. But we must treat failure as a moment and not a monument, because you'll learn more in a single failure than in a lifetime of success. God does not consider you a failure, despite all your faults and your weaknesses. Because God has not created failures. Ephesians 2:10 For we are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago.
The eyes of Jesus are upon your tears to console you.
When Peter realized he had denied Jesus 3 times the same night he went and cried, cried and cried. Those tears were a demonstration of Peter's pain because of his failure. The tears Peter sheds initiated the process of repentance and restoration, and those tears Jesus saw, and his heart was moved. Life hurts and hits. Even when we have surrendered our lives to Jesus, we don’t receive immunity against the wounds of life.
Perhaps you are crying, and nobody knows. You're hiding your crying in the bathroom while you're showering or on the pillow. You are hiding because you think no one will understand you or defend you. Those wounds don’t need to destroy you. Jesus wants to help us overcome those pains. Jesus sees your tears and his heart is moved with compassion and love. Psalm 56: 8 You keep track of all my sorrows. You have collected all my tears in your bottle. You have recorded each one in your book.
Tears touch the heart of our God. He isn't aloof and cold. Jesus wants to console you. But you must surrender your tears, sadness and problems to him. Psalm 34:17-18 “When the righteous cry, the Lord hears and rescues them from all their distress and troubles. The Lord is near to the heartbroken…” Jesus wants to dry your tears, but you must want his divine protection. 1 Peter 5:7 "Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you."
Have you been betrayed by friends or family? Jesus understands and he sees your tears. Have you been treated unjustly by co-workers? Jesus understands and he sees your tears. Have you lost loved ones through terrible diseases? Jesus understands and he sees your tears. Have you suffered poverty and hunger, or experienced emotional distress and physical pain? Jesus understands and he sees your tears. Tears are not a sign of weakness; they are a sign of humanity.
Jesus doesn’t look to condemn us but to save and bless us.
The eyes of Jesus are always with love, mercy and grace. The eyes of Jesus are upon your heart and want to recovery the joy in your live and give peace to you and to your relationships. Open your heart to Jesus right now. If you have failed, Jesus wants to give you another chance. If your heart is frustrated and hurt, Jesus sees and wants to restore you.
THE EYES OF JESUS ARE UPON YOUR LIFE AND HE WANT TO GIVE YOU NEW DAYS.
Pastor Norberto Obermann
The Church of My Dream
March 25, 2019
I dream of a church where worship is vibrant: the passionate, heart-felt expression of praise, thanksgiving, reverence and adoration.
I dream of a church that is filled with people who determine what they should do for others based upon what Jesus Christ has done for them.
I dream of a church that meets needs, not just budgets; that repairs lives, not just buildings.
I dream of a church that meets people where they are and equips them to become what they were created to be.
I dream of a church that believes what Jesus believed, teaches what Jesus taught, and lives how Jesus lived.
I dream of a church where the people are intentionally encouraging those who are steps behind them in their journey.
I dream of a church whose love for God is expressed and experienced through their love for one another.
I dream of a church that is so selfless, so loving, and so united that it can be felt and experienced by all who walk through the doors.
I dream of a church where friends are found, bonds are formed, and promises are kept.
I dream of a church that puts the needs of the lost ahead of the preferences of the found.
I dream of a church that is always changing its methods and never changing its message.
I dream of a church whose people both “go” and “bring”, “invade” and “invite” so that others may hear and know the Good News.— Author Unknown
When Dreams are Delayed
March 11, 2019
Edmund Hillary was born in 1919. He grew up in Auckland, New Zealand, and always had interest in climbing mountains. After climbing several mountains in New Zealand, he went to the Himalaya Mountains, where he climbed 11 different mountains above 20,000 feet. In 1951, Edmund Hillary joined a British Team who was trying to climb the Mt. Everest, but they failed. After a time, Edmund Hillary came to the USA to give a conference at a university. When he entered through the main hall of the university building, to his surprise, there was a large picture of Mt. Everest painted on the wall. He stood in front of the picture for a while. And then he said: "You have already grown everything you could grow… I still have a lot to grow." Six months later he reached the top of Mt. Everest — the highest point on earth. His dream had come true.
Many have left their dreams behind. They have become nightmares. Many have made a funeral service of their dreams. The dreams we are talking about are more than illusions or fantasies. The dreams we are talking about are inspired by God and his purpose for our lives. These dreams bring meaning to life because they take us further than we can even think or imagine. These dreams motivate us to continue even in the face of difficult.
Perhaps you have dreamed, and difficult circumstances have fought against you, trying to make you give up. Dreams are sometimes postponed or delayed because God has a more important dream to fulfill in our lives. So, be still and stay calm. Believe God is using this time of delay to work his dream in you.
David wrote in Psalm 27:13-14 “I would have despaired unless I had believed that I would see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living. Wait for the Lord; be strong, and let your heart take courage; yes, wait for the Lord.” God wants you to get where God wants you to go more than you want to get where God wants you to go! So, take a deep breath, enjoy the journey, and know that God will get you there when you’re ready to get there. Don’t give up! Continue to DREAM! Be bold in your dreams trusting in God, and in His timing.
Pastor Norberto Obermann
Boldness to Dream Again
February 15, 2019
Dreams often are whispers of God's voice. It's a creative way He uses to have relationship and to communicate with us. Dreams from God are an expression of His heart. When we were young, we believed we could be anyone… and we were: explorers, athletes, movie actors, etc. whatever we could imagine. We weren’t afraid to dream. We were full of wonder and life, but something happened; we stop dreaming.
When we stop dreaming something dies, we stop living. When we begin to dream again it seems that life returns, and we have a new chapter in the book of our life. God give us the ability to dream, not a nostalgic or unrealistic dream, but a real and exciting DREAM. God’s dreams give direction to our life. God’s dreams help us to focus and choose correctly. God’s dreams give us hope and revives the energy within our being. God wants to write on our hearts the plans he has for us; so why not dream again and believe again? It is never too late. Dale Turner said, “Dreams are renewable. No matter what our age or condition, there are still untapped possibilities and new beauty waiting to be born.”
We don’t put our trust in circumstances or people. Our trust remains in the Lord. God is able to do exceedingly abundantly more than we can ask or think. So, don’t let anything hold you back. Don’t let anyone keep you from dreaming. The dreams God has given you are treasures worth living for. Have faith in God. Believe in Him and listen to his voice. Be boldness to dream again!!!
Pastor Norberto Obermann
The Most Important Task
January 22, 2019
It’s not the expensive school located in Cambridge, Massachusetts called “The Massachusetts Institute of Technology”. MIT stands for “Most Important Task”. It’ s a concept that challenges you to think and to define each day what is the task you most want or need to get done that day. The idea is that no matter what else you that day must do this task will have priority and must be accomplished.
But I don’t want to challenge you to think only what your MIT are for one day. I want to challenge you think and define what is “The Most Important Task of your life”. What it´s the MIT for all of us as Christian in a world that is against our values and beliefs? What it´s the MIT for each of us as a child of God, who wants to obey and please God? What should be our MIT as disciples of Jesus who want to share His love with all the people who do not know Him?
Let me suggest three tasks:
- Listen to the voice of God — Can we really hear the voice of God?
God spoke the creation into existence (Genesis 1) and sustains all life by his words (Hebrews 1:3). Today he is still speaking to our hearts in “gentle whispers” (1 Kings 19:12) that create and renew life in us and around us. Jesus says in John 10:27, “My sheep hear My voice, and I know them, and they follow Me”. To hear the voice of Jesus we must first be his sheep and belong to his flock. We must be close to Him and know Him as a friend. But God is inviting us to know more than just his voice. He is inviting you to know Him. He is inviting you to enter in a relationship based on love, trust, and confidence. If you want to hear God's voice, you need to seek him. Be honest. Ask him to give you ears to hear and eyes to see the ways he is speaking to you. Read your Bible. Be quiet and focused on what He is saying.
- Discern the voice of God —What does it mean?
It's no use just listening. You need to understand, to process. Putting it in other words, you must meditate. Psalm 1:2 says, “But his delight is in the law of the Lord; and in his law doth he meditate day and night.” Meditation prepares us to understand what God has said, helps us to focus, understand, remember, worship, and make an application of it into our lives. Dr. Bruce Demarest writes “A quieted heart is our best preparation for all this work of God. Meditation refocuses us from ourselves and from the world so that we reflect on God’s Word, His nature, His abilities, and His works.” Meditation is not a confined life in a monastery, it’s learning to think of and hear from God in the busyness of real life.
- Obey the voice of God —What will I do with that?
In order to listen to God and receive His instruction, we must want to do His will. David says in Psalm 40:8, "I desire to do your will, O my God; your law is within my heart." God honors the heart that is fully surrendered to Him. If we want to hear God´s voice, first we must be ready to obey. When you listen to God and obey Him, you will discover a life that is full and rich with purpose. And you will be confident that you are following the master’s plan. For that reason, be ready to listen to His message, and be quick to obey Him.
Pastor Norberto Obermann
I'm Doing New Things
January 1, 2019
“See, I am doing a new thing!” (Isaiah 43:19)
Thanks to Christmas, we all end the year with new things—new toys for the kids, new clothes (not always the right color or size, but still new), and new pounds on our bodies. We start the year off with new things too—a new calendar on the wall, new bills to pay, and new resolutions for the days ahead. New is great. New sounds like potential and opportunity.
Everybody likes new things, including God
He says, “Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it?” (Isaiah 43:18-19)
At this New Year our heavenly Father wants to do new things in our lives. He desires to teach us new truths about Himself, provide new opportunities for ministering to others, take us to higher levels of worship and deeper levels of trust.
God is a God of new things and is always moving us forward
His track record is incredible. He never starts something He can't finish. He never moves without purpose. He never fails. He is faithful. As this New Year begins, we challenge you to committing yourselves to God. He offers renewed mercy with each day. He promises good plans for his people, plans that include a hopeful future. There will be new blessings, new trials, new failures, and new victories, but His goodness will guard us.
Pastor Norberto Obermann